Keep Them Short - Your Fingernails, That Is!

Here's a tip, guys. If you are going to insert your fingers into her vulva, keep your fingernails short and well manicured. More on technique in later posts, but for now, just know that you HAVE to keep your fingernails short. Long nails, hangnails, etc can cause cuts inside, and that will not only hurt her but she'll make you wait a while, or worse, she'll be afraid to have you go back in again in the future! Getting a regular manicure is a really good idea. Don't be afraid that it's something that girls do, smart men get it done, as well. It keeps your hands looking good (trust me, she looks at them) and feeling great.

While we're at it, pay attention to the condition of your hands and fingers. She loves it when you touch her all over, especially if your hands are in good shape. If the skin is rough, try Neutrogena Hand Cream. It was developed for Norwegian fishermen, you can imagine the conditions they work in is hard on their hands. The stuff really works, it keeps your hands in great condition.

Also, wear gloves when you're working with your hands, whether you're lifting weights or doing some other form of manual labor. Women respond very, very well to a man with strong hands that are also soft to the touch. She'll let you wander anywhere with those hands if they're powerful and smooth. Cracked skin and sharp, tough callouses will not turn her on in the least.

When you do go in with your fingers, even with soft skin and nails in check, always (ALWAYS) use a good quality lube. Even if she's already dripping wet, which she should be by the time you are getting ready to explore her with your fingers, lube will help keep her from getting micro abrasions inside. Those are painful.

Grapeseed oil is a great, all-natural lubricant you can use if you are NOT using condoms. It contains vitamin E and is very healthy to use inside her vagina. It will, however, eat through latex condoms. Astro Glide is safe to use with condoms and works well, but my current favorite is Aloe Cadabra. It's 95% pure, organic Aloe Vera, slippery enough, stays in place, is VERY healthy, and condom-safe. I like it without a condom, as does my partner. She loves the way it feels between us.