Texting can be a great way to keep in touch during the day, especially when you are busy. Let her know you're thinking of her.
Or better yet, WHAT you're thinking about her. If you're in a relationship, send her texts that let her know how beautiful her smile is. Or what your favorite part of her is, or how well she kisses, etc. Build some anticipation for later and get a little more graphic. Let her know how sexy her ass is, or step it up and sext her what you will do to her later. Women like to read romance novels for a reason. They're turned on mentally, not optically. Send a few hot texts to get her mind wandering during the day, start the foreplay HOURS before you'll see her. She'll have to let that simmer in her mind for the whole day while she's working, working out, driving home...
Keep it playful, sexy, and fun, and build anticipation. Then see what happens when she gets home!
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Tuesday, November 30, 2010
Tuesday, November 2, 2010
How this blog began.
I was in a marriage that wasn't working. We barely had sex, there was little intimacy. When we did have sex, it was great, but it happened so infrequently the last couple of years.
We had trouble getting pregnant, which was kind of a blessing. We "tried" a lot, which was fantastic for both of us. Nothing happened, pregnancy-wise. Turns out she was deficient in a hormone. A trip to a fertility doctor, a little hormone replacement, then seeing a follicle that visit (an egg ready to be fertilized), then the doctor recommended we go home and have fun for the weekend. We did. A lot that weekend. And Dammit, it took right away. That was the last time we'd make love for almost two years. Two YEARS.
The lack of sex and intimacy in general was killing me. I'd always been interested in good sex, had studied it both in theory and in a lot of practice. In a sexless marriage, I stepped up my studying. A lot.
We finally made love and she was shocked. Actually asked how I'd learned all that. It wasn't just technique, it was attitude and much more. She REALLY enjoyed that. But by then, we'd grown so far apart that when we decided to go through counseling, even the therapists couldn't help us. We divorced, and I kept studying. And the things I've learned have made a huge difference in every aspect of my life. I'm more confident, more successful, have better friendships, and after showing a couple more women the sheer possibilities of the pleasure they can experience, I found a woman I'm proud to call my girlfriend.
Having a steady relationship allows for a much deeper connection and a chance to know what REALLY gets both of you off. And that constantly changes and evolves.
These are the things I want to explore here with this blog. I want to hear from others' experiences, would LOVE it if there was a lot of discussion and participation here. Welcome, thanks for reading, and here's to men becoming better lovers and both men and women benefitting!
We had trouble getting pregnant, which was kind of a blessing. We "tried" a lot, which was fantastic for both of us. Nothing happened, pregnancy-wise. Turns out she was deficient in a hormone. A trip to a fertility doctor, a little hormone replacement, then seeing a follicle that visit (an egg ready to be fertilized), then the doctor recommended we go home and have fun for the weekend. We did. A lot that weekend. And Dammit, it took right away. That was the last time we'd make love for almost two years. Two YEARS.
The lack of sex and intimacy in general was killing me. I'd always been interested in good sex, had studied it both in theory and in a lot of practice. In a sexless marriage, I stepped up my studying. A lot.
We finally made love and she was shocked. Actually asked how I'd learned all that. It wasn't just technique, it was attitude and much more. She REALLY enjoyed that. But by then, we'd grown so far apart that when we decided to go through counseling, even the therapists couldn't help us. We divorced, and I kept studying. And the things I've learned have made a huge difference in every aspect of my life. I'm more confident, more successful, have better friendships, and after showing a couple more women the sheer possibilities of the pleasure they can experience, I found a woman I'm proud to call my girlfriend.
Having a steady relationship allows for a much deeper connection and a chance to know what REALLY gets both of you off. And that constantly changes and evolves.
These are the things I want to explore here with this blog. I want to hear from others' experiences, would LOVE it if there was a lot of discussion and participation here. Welcome, thanks for reading, and here's to men becoming better lovers and both men and women benefitting!
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